Have you found the guy you want to be with but you have no idea how to make him fall for you? Finding Mr. Right isn’t easy, but getting him to love you with all his heart is even harder. Here are a few tips on how to make your guy not only notice you, but find you amazingly attractive.
Be mysterious. If you are meeting him for the first time, be coy with your answers. Give short, sly answers to his questions in a flirting manner. If you cannot flirt while you do this, you will come off sounding like a snob, so be sure to be a little flirty. Look him in the eye when you talk to him and ask him questions about himself. Most guys love to talk about themselves and your guy is probably no different. Leave a little mystery in the conversation by giving him hints at your hobbies and the things you like to do without going into a lot of detail.
Use your body language to let him know you are interested. Face towards him while talking to him and touch his arm every so often during conversation. Looking down and then into his eyes is a classic body language signal to let him know that you are into him. If he looks back into your eyes, then he is probably interested in you as well.
Find out what you have in common. If you both like to roller skate, plan a skating outing together. Doing a physical activity with the person you are into is a great way to bond and to get the juices flowing. It’s also a huge turn on when you can do something physical together. Just make sure that you are genuinely interested in the activity, otherwise, this may backfire on you.
Plan to cook dinner for him at your home. Cook foods that are meant to be eaten with the fingers. This creates a sensual dining experience. Be sure to light plenty of candles around the dining area to create a romantic and passionate mood. Plan for a dessert that you can have champagne with, such as strawberries dipped in chocolate. This finger food is wonderful for feeding to each other.
During dinner, be sure to play some romantic music in the background. It is best to choose music which as no lyrics so that it does not detract from your conversation. A soft, slow jazz CD is a great choice. If you are not into jazz, you can choose instrumental versions of romantic songs that you like.
After dinner, ask him to dance with you. Dancing is one of the most romantic things that a couple can do together. It initiates physical contact and helps the two of you to bond emotionally and physically. Lay your head on his shoulder while you are dancing and chances are, he will lean in for a kiss.
Close, cheek to cheek, conversation is a great way to share with each other. Often called pillow talk, this close conversation is typically about fears, dreams and personal ideals. If you can share these deep thoughts with one another, you are more likely to bond for the long run. Keep sharing with each other and being intimate and pretty soon, you will have the relationship of your dreams.