If you want to attract your Dream Guy, then you have to assess who and what you wish to become to be his Dream Girl. Sometimes a little personality tweaking is in order, using a few simple steps to ensure you can click into place with your dreamboat’s lifestyle and image. However, the bottom line is to stay as true to your natural self as possible and be honest about the type of guy that’s going to appreciate you. If he falls short in returning your favor, remember, we don’t fix ’em, we replace ’em.
1. Body Beautiful
If you want that chiseled and well cared for physical appearance, you probably won’t find your dream guy hanging at the local doughnut shop. Instead, comb the gyms, beaches and local recreation areas to find that perfect guy that knows how to put his fork down. Overeating not only causes a physical distortion of the body, it can have long-term health effects that will not fit with your ideal relationship plan.
2. Pony-up Yourself.
If you want to attract a tight and healthy body, you have to live in one yourself. No one sided attraction is going to happen here. If you expect your dream guy to be physically fit, you can bet he want’s the same trophy body from you. Keep yourself at minimal weight and tighten and tone from head to toe. Your new body is not only a blast to live in, but it will give you two some common ground for conversation in diet, gym training and overall health and fitness.
3. Watch How He Treats Others.
Your dream guy needs to have the total package to include a friendly and dependable demeanor. No matter how well he treats you in the initial stages of the relationship, if he is a back stabber to others, sooner or later your number will be up. When you have a guy that shows promise with his considerations to others, never slam or back bite someone in his presence. He needs to know that you are a cut above the rest of the pack and he can trust you with his deepest, darkest secrets. Always be cheerful, honest and ready to support other people rather than condemning them. This is one aspect of the relationship where opposites do not attract.
4. Mamma’s Boy.
Your dream guy is going to put you in the center of his world and up on the pedestal where you belong, unless of course, you have stumbled upon a mamma’s boy. The telling signals that your guy has another love ahead of yours are your first indication to put on your running shoes and scram. The mamma’s boy syndrome does not dissipate over time, it only gets worse and will leave you fending for yourself when your man should have been at your side. Signals that he cannot detach from his mother include calling her for every little piece of advice, working her into irrelevant conversations, emotionally insecure about living too far away from her and discovering his “mom” tattoo with a bleeding heart.
5. Person Of Interest
Finally to attract a quality guy, you have to have something upstairs to draw his attention and engage him with intellect. You need not be a Rhode’s Scholar to achieve your intellectual objectives, but you do need to have a sense of self and interesting hobbies to occupy your time. Looks can carry you only so far, and you need to develop yourself with interest of your own that can contribute to a relationship in a positive way. The clinging vine type of gal that has no life of her own will not only drain him trying to entertain her, but may also be an embarrassment when presenting her to his family and friends. Be unique, as interesting as you can, and always game for any topic in conversation. Be a woman of strong opinions, yet gentle on the delivery, and watch the dream boats with any merrit come sailing by. If he does not appreciate your strength and integrity, he’s a dream guy imposter and you have to cut him loose.