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Broken Marriage – Keys to Fixing a Broken Relationship

Posted on February 25, 2011 Written by danrak

It happens all the time, and is one of the most common situations in the world; people spend years together knowing nothing but happiness, only to experience a broken relationship down the road. With divorce rates getting higher each and every year, it’s fair to say that just about everyone goes through a broken relationship at one point. If the relationship hasn’t been completely severed, however, it’s possible to take steps to make things better. Put simply, fixing a broken relationship is possible so long as you do what is necessary.

BE MINDFUL WHEN TALKING

For those who are dealing with a broken relationship, talking things out can be difficult. More often than not, a simple conversation can quickly turn into an argument or even a fight. One of the most important things you can do in order to fix a broken relationship is to be extremely mindful when you are having a conversation with your partner. Usually, you can tell if a conversation is shifting into an argument; by taking action, you can stop this from happening. Be sure you explain to your partner that you want to have a calm conversation and that you don’t want to argue, as this can help to keep both people on the same page.

MAKE A LIST OF PROS AND CONS

Sometimes relationships just fall apart, but usually there is at least one reason. If you are having a hard time pinpointing why you are currently dealing with a broken relationship, it can be very helpful to make a list of the pros and cons that you associate with your relationship. Try not to focus on “why is this happening;” just make a list of everything you can think of that relates to the good and the bad of your relationship. Chances are, you’ll see a pattern or an aspect that will help to explain what the issue is. Once you are confident that you know the problem, sit down with your partner and have a mature conversation about what the two of you can do to fix it.

WORK ON YOURSELF

You can’t truly love another person unless you have love for yourself, which for many people is the main reason that their relationships fall apart. Instead of focusing on what you can do to change the other person, work on fixing any potential problems that you can identify in your life. For instance, if you are unhappy with your weight, start making the effort to go to the gym on a regular basis. The more you can do to improve you who are, the more attractive and confident you will be as a person. Many people find that this is the key to fixing a broken relationship, even though it sounds somewhat contradictory.

TAKE A BREAK

One of the best ways to fix a broken relationship is for both parties to take a break from one another. More often than not, relationships fall apart because people rely on each other for too much. This is a phenomenon known as codependency, and it affects millions of people throughout the world. Becoming codependent is easy for those who spend every last minute with their partner, yet the paradox is that it is extremely difficult to break out of. The only way to truly break out of codependency is to take some time off from the relationship and grow individually. Learning to stand on your own two feet can be scary, but it is a life lesson that can improve you as a person, and should be viewed as a positive experience.

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