Dating in the twenty-first century is much easier than it used to be. With all of the different types of mediums for meeting Ms. Right, the world is now a smorgasbord for Cupid’s arrows. There are many ways to take advantage of the technology that’s at our fingertips, especially when it comes to wooing and captivating a special someone. Information on how to make your date fall in love with you before you even meet may come in handy, and it doesn’t cost a dime to read.
Men fall in love almost every day; it doesn’t take much for us to have our strengths turn into weaknesses, but women? Well, they’re a different breed with different needs, and it may take a little longer to seal the deal. If you’ve got your heart set on stealing the essence of a woman before the first date, a number of steps should be taken to ensure your success. All you really need is a computer, a fully loaded PDA, and a credit card. If you don’t have a way with words, don’t worry; your computer will help you become a romantically funny, idiot-savant poet. After acquiring these electronic, plastic, and literary devices, it’s time to become the new third millennium Adonis; the wing-man’s idol.
Whether you meet your future lover via chat forum, social network, or dating site, finding out what turns her on is the first step. Finding out what she doesn’t like is the next, and from this point forward, you don’t like any of it either. The entire project is now all about making her feel like she’s the only woman in the universe. Find out the most convenient way for her to communicate with you: texting, twittering, emailing, and/or talking on the phone. Whatever she has, you also have it. Her favorite foods are your favorites. Ask about where she grew up, and then study the area. Tell her that you feel like you’ve known her since forever, and you feel extremely comfortable when in her presence. You can’t wait to meet her and the anticipation is killing you. This should take place during “the talk,” a conversation that doesn’t end until sunrise. Use Photoshop to create silly or romantic images and send them to her. Having a good sense of humor is an imperative; if you can make her laugh uncontrollably; you’re on your way to achieving what you originally set out to do. Laughter is a key element to most any successful romance, and is also one of nature’s most effective aphrodisiacs.
Having a webcam will help you tell her that your first date will be the most memorable of all time. Tell her some of your most intimate secrets and you’ll gain her trust. If she likes to discuss current events or politics, play the devil’s advocate to show that you’re passionate about the state of the world, and that it’s a better place because she’s a part of it. Send her e-cards and e-flowers to let her know that you’re in touch with your own feelings. Ask for her opinion, and do it often. You respect her for what she has to say, no matter the topic.
If you can, make sure she knows that every step you take, you take because of her. If these carefully planned out steps don’t do the trick, you won’t be heartbroken because you haven’t even met her. Going on the date is still a good idea, just to give her a taste of what she’ll be missing.