A first date should do two things: allow two people to get to know each other better and to provide some entertainment. In other words, a couple should have a good time while getting better acquainted. The following article discusses some great possibilities for first dates for a variety of personality types.
Dinner and a movie is a cliché for a reason—a good reason. It provides entertainment, and, at the very least, something to talk about as you get to know each other better over dinner. Nevertheless, you can make it a more memorable experience by adding some slight variation to this tried and true outing. For example, try spicing up your night with something culturally different. Find a listing for a French film and couple it with reservations at a French restaurant. For something more exotic, consider the cultures of India, Mexico, Morocco, Thailand, etc…
Another take on dinner and a movie is to replace the cinema with an alternative destination. A wine tasting makes for a sophisticated outing. Pair with a romantic restaurant and you have the makings for a memorable date. Also, consider a concert or play as a substitute to the movie.
If you are looking for some action on your date—PG action that is, consider hiking to a picnic destination in your area. You’ll need to know how athletic your date is and to let them know to dress accordingly. Biking, playing tennis, rock climbing, roller blading might also be considered and topped off with a meal or a quiet visit to a secluded café for coffee and dessert.
Many cities have special traveling exhibits. Check local galleries and museums for event schedules. Likewise, fairs and festivals make wonderful first dates as well. Also, consider scenic areas in your town or city like beaches or parks—these make fine date destinations.
For college students on a tight budget, consider hooking up at the local bookstore and talking over piles of books that interest you both. Top it off with ice cream or coffee—or even drinks.
Finally, there’s no harm in using your creativity to come up with something wild. But be sure your plans allow you an expected measure of fun or relaxation and the ability to get to know one another better.
